Psychosexual Therapy*

Domination by Determinism

In order for one to fully enjoy the innate, inherent, evolving & living dimension of existence called Sex, one's sexual ongoing/process must be flowing, balanced, and proper for (and of) the individual. Just as one needs good motor skills on top of having appropriate comprehension in order to take shorthand, people must have things working correctly bodily AND mentally so they may obtain pleasure from where pleasures are meant to be found.

Here at the S.S.I. we do just that ...and the other thing too. SSList-SSLove6a-e1-2a

The Purpose, Point & Principles behind THERAPY:

Don't expect Tender Loving Care during Therapy here. No, no, no...

Here there's no T.L.C., but rather just T.L.C.; being TOUGH LOVE!

Therapy isn't about babying someone, nor about enabling or coddling them... One doesn't have successful Speech-Therapy by being their mouthpiece, nor does one get better from Physical-Therapy if they're carried to & fro, and one won't become well during Psychotherapy if the Schizophrenic is labeled merely as being Eccentric —stamp "Mute" on the paperwork, ready that handicapped parking spot, and have a straight-jacket handy when all hell breaks loose! There's a big difference between aiding someone and outright supporting them; between handing someone some helpful crutches, and hoisting them up by a crane.

THERAPY's origin...


Greek: Therapeia

Latin: Therapiae

Original Meaning: "To render a service on to another person of a healing or curing purpose."

Concerning a CURE for your Rampant Desires:

The word "cure" doesn't actually work with Fetishes. A Fetish can't be purposely stomped out, nor can it be 'cured.' Rather, Fetishes come & go; existing in accordance with their need to exist (their reason for being someone's fetish in the first place). While most stay for one's entire life, others fade away (and yet others fade-in). Through the armor of knowledge, you can reduce the effectiveness of a Fetish (decreasing its need within your yearnings). Doing so will change a Paraphilic-Fetishism back into a self-manageable "Fetish", and can subdue (lessen) a growing (or problematic) Fetish. Usually one's Fetishes are not a serious problem on their own. (In fact, quite often when one's Fetish is a major issue in/of itself, there are other problems going on; those of a Psychological nature {ex. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder}.) A normal Fetish (per-se) becomes an issue when it grows, expands, deepens, and widens; incorporating other fetishes into the cornerstone fetish (which acts in a cancerous manner), and multiplying its own details/extensions. Such is a Fetish that has turned Paraphilic. And so, with by knowledge, you we can chip away at your Paraphilias.


*As is stated on all of my Niteflirt® listings (and my new website), I clearly disclose that...

Despite having worked in the Mental Health Department, and having had several certifications, I am not a licensed medical professional...

...nor do I claim to be one. The use of the title "Therapist" is merely for advertising purposes. I don't erroneously or arrogantly elevate what I do on Niteflirt® beyond that which it actually is with individuals (which honestly includes the giving of educational opinions, advice based on personal study & experience, analytic aid, and the like with numerous individuals). I have taken several classes in Psychology, yet I personally would evidence the legitimacy of my ability with my frequent study of Psychological, Sexological, Neurological, and Philosophical areas; studies involving or involved in one's Psychosexuality being of personal interest & enjoyment to me. (Personally, I am a Jungian on most Psychological issues.) A good number of people have said things to me (usually as a response) with a common atmosphere which can be generically mirrored as:

If you are a real Therapist, then maybe you can help me.

Though I do not believe that most say such with malicious intent, the notion that I cannot help you due to lacking a license could be easily taken as an insult. Yet, simultaneously, I can indeed understand as to why you would state such; in that in all probability none of those which claim to be "Real", "Actual", or "Licensed" Therapists on Niteflirt® are actually Licensed, not to mention that many of those women state such ONLY for marketing reasons, while personally lacking interest or knowledge in the field (though I am sure that just as many have a personal love & understanding of such as I do). As explained in my "Choices [to be made]" pay-to-view, I can help, indulge, or mix the two (based on the needs of the individual). If you are looking for the growing fetish of the "Manipulating Therapist", I would only participate in such capacity if you were to specifically & clearly ask me for such. I know that such would take a lot of the realism out of it, but I cannot & will not take a guess on whether or not someone wants real help or fetishistic enjoyment; rather disappointing a dozen horny men than furthering a psychological problem in one individual. I am sure that you can agree with such reasoning. If you truly desire (or need) help with a Fetish-based Addiction, I can help and have helped multiple other men with such issues throughout the past several years. However, if you are firmly held to the belief that I would harm you despite having asked for help, or that someone cannot give aid without certification, then I shall respect that belief and wish you the best in finding the proper help that you need.

—Therapist Samantha Summers™

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